Word to your mother: Mother's Day done right

I was at a Kentucky Derby party this weekend when the conversation wandered from horses to other beasts of burden: mothers. Let's face it, we do it all and as the years so by, we have become less coy about Mother's Day. We've worked hard, and feel we've earned the right to be more vocal about what we want.  At the party, the mother in the giant fascinator told me she used to feel guilty about taking time for herself. She couldn't enjoy it because she worried she was being selfish. This is not a concern I hear from fathers, and...