Take your pleasure seriously

There are two times in a woman's life when society expects her to be a stressed out shell of herself. So much so, that if she isn't frazzled, one might think she isn't doing it right. When are these two times? During her wedding planning, and during the holidays. I got married in 2006, when the term "bridezilla" was still being bandied about. I didn't fall into that trap. As a natural hostess, I love planning parties, and this felt like planning the biggest party of my life. I didn't take it too seriously. Marriage was serious. The wedding? Well...